Hello again!

It is hard to believe that spring is coming and that summer is not far behind!   There is something about the new growth and warmer temperatures that make us think of new beginnings.  It is no wonder that so many weddings take place in the spring and summer months of the year.

One of the first set of questions that surface when planning a wedding is "Who pays for what" and "Are these rules hard and fast and therefore unbreakable?"  There are several ways of answering these questions. There are traditional lists of break-down's concerning who pays for what available on-line, in books and from event planners.  In the past, our society adhered to a very strict code of etiquette and one had to respect the rules of etiquette to be socially acceptable.  It is still acceptable to adhere to the stricter rules of etiquette today, but there is more flexibility to consider other options.  It is common for the couple to entirely assume the cost of their wedding and reception.  It is also common for the bride's family to assume most of the cost of the events.  It is both common, and very practical, for both families and the couple to agree to pay for the wedding and reception.  One should welcome any offers of financial assistance, if needed, but should never request such offers.

Planning a wedding should be fun!  After all, it is a joyous occasion and a major event in a life.  I wish you happy planning!
Greta Chaney